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Tiny Acts of Resistance & Rest

Greetings to my tiny list of followers following my tiny adventures! Yes, life in the Airstream and all of its adventures didn’t stop when I left my Airstream. It just taught me to live life wherever you are.

In these times with our country heading towards facism, with an autocracy looming things have seemed quite depressing. In the last week I was hit with another round of the other thing that continues, COVID, and forced to slow down, be completely selfish and rejuvinate. And in looking back realized I still had some things to share here in this blog.

The onslaught of social media doom and gloom strolling, and the real doom and gloom looming above my head, had me thinking about my dual citizenship with Canada, again. But in all honesty, I’m a fighter, and I know that. So I’ve been taking the trailer lessons of knowing how to live life going with the flow, and uncertainty of the unkown, and have a plan A,B,C and sometimes D. So I’ve still have my Canada plans, along with some other countries it might be fun to just pick up and start over in. At the same time I live a parallell life, staying put, standing strong and fighting for Democracy.

The terror we have all felt thinking about what could happen and what is happening is real. I have found the best way to make it go away is to choose to face it and knock it out with action. Ironically there was a workshop in my neighborhood on safety at protests. I thought maybe I’d learn something. Little did I know they were actually recruiting for what we now call the East PDX Indivisible Safety Team. We scout out our area of protest ahead of time, noting, places to hide people, places to relocate people to, restrooms, driveways, bustops etc. And we communicate on walkies with practiced tools of de-escalation. We help folks do simple stuff like stay on sidewalks, providing simple medical help with folks who might get injured, bringing water etc. We keep an eye out for outside agitators, ICE and other unwanted guests. We all are trained in de-escalation skills. All the time we prepare for when it might get ugly and we will need to use strategic non-violent actions to make our point or civil disobedience that could land us in jail. I’m not sure how far I will go. I do know working with these folks, and the gratitude from the protestors who are not your average folks… or maybe I should say, they are your average folks…. folks in wheelchairs, elderly, young folks with kids in strollers, etc… has brought me a greater sense of community, a strength and courage to make me want to fight back more.

I have also gotten involved with the local Black Community meeting privately at a local home working on local issues that primarily are of interest to us, while navigating how the bigger fight intertwines with our issues and how we can benefit each other. I’ve been honing my skills at testifying at city hall, speaking out at school board meetings, writing letters to the governor and other leaders. If you are feeling overwhelmed by it all I highly encourage you to find some small way to get involved in resisting. Taking action takes away fear and anxiety and helps me see all of the good out there and realize I am not alone.

I heard someone say, don’t get overwhelmed with the doom and gloom, pick one thing that you are passionate about fighting for and use your skills that bring you joy to fight that fight. It has been too hard for me to limit it to one thing. I actually wanted to do something for the environment, as I felt, without a planet, nothing else matters. But getting involved with environmental politics in a way that actually makes a difference can be a bit more challenging. I’m still working on that. I have an art project on the back burner as a way to raise funds for some of the organizations doing the good work there.

ICE going after immigrants, or should I say kidnappers going after anyone black or brown hit home personally since a lot of my immigrant friends were living in fear, and to be honest, ICE seems interested in basically anyone black or brown, so that would include me too, and I don’t think I have the resources or connections to get myself out of a camp somewhere in the world. Plus, I’m just not the kind of person that can sit and watch injustice being done and not say a peep. A local church, Augustana Lutheran, was doing some real work, some brave work, on what nonviolent strategic action is, as well as designating their church as a true sanctuary. They started with a kickoff inviting surrounding churches to join them in their efforts, giving credit to the Black Church and all of the work done before in the Civil Rights Movement that they were modeling their work after. That has been fullfilling and interesting work to be a part of.

I supported my friend who is an author with the work she is doing fighting book bans here in Oregon and across the country. She also introduced me to work standing up for the Trans community with Oregon’s Equal Rights Ammendment. If you are an Oregonian reading this and haven’t signed the petition to get this on the ballot, please do. Its important we strengthen ourselves at the state level since at the national level, so much has been weakened.

I offered my professional skills free of charge helping strengthen my local entertainment industry union to be a stronger union with trainings and consulting on what it means to be a union, and I’m helping them see where they fit in to the larger fight. If fascism wins we won’t have unions.

I’ve joined the Oregon campaign for Health Care For All Oregon, seeing as I’ll be losing my access to affordable Health Insurance come January and watching a friend who when midterms come around and she loses her medicaide, because of her severe diabetes, she will literally die within a week without any alternatives. I had some experience helping on those initiatives in California so started exploring how I might help here. If you are in Oregon and interested in helping check out their website and take the Health Care 101 class.

I continue to read books to educate myself, go to protests, better understand how all of the issues are intertwined, and speak out and use my voice while I still can.

In doing all of this, I’ve met amazing people along the way. I realized I have lived with a lot of privilege in this country, not having to be involved in holding politicians accountable, just living life free of worry. In other words, I’ve been able to maneuver life without being accountable for being a citizen and all that is required of a citizen in a democratic society. I can also see how vulnerable our system is, and see how full of dysfunction it is. Something major has to change. Its not just what we are against that matters. More importantly it is what we are for. Because if we get rid of what we are against we leave a big hole. And the hole will be filled with whatever is out there. So we all need to be having serious conversations about what we think it should be filled with collectively. We need to find out what we are collectively for.

I found myself in a place where I was frustrated with the folks who seemed to not be doing anything, the folks who never spoke up about what was going on. Seeing their radio silence made me wonder, would they be there for me if I needed them? I knew doing something was easy. There are so many ways to stand up. I couldn’t understand why at the smallest level, they wouldn’t even talk about what was happening. There are so many ways to resist that take zero risk. It might be as small as letting your friends know in private conversations that you are not in agreement with what is going on. That is a start. So when people gave me the old “I can’t get involved in politics, because ….blah blah blah” excuse, it made my blood boil. It is was it is and I had to let go of expecting anything different from those folks. I had to be thankful for the new friends I was making who I knew would be in community with me and show up to fight by my side, and I had to think about what I could do, how I might have influence. Judging the radio silent was a waste of energy. I can be grateful for the positive things those people have brought to my life and acknowledge to myself at the same time they may not be the safest people for me to depend on. I wondered if this is how folks felt in Nazi Germany as things started changing or in other parts of our world history.

At the same time, there were so many people I was meeting doing so much good work. I decided I wanted to focus on and document these folks. So…. I started a second art project that I’m calling “We The People, Tiny Stories of Resistance”. I am painting small portraits and telling the stories of the ordinary people I am meeting along the way doing tiny acts of resistance. My hope is to paint 100 portraits that I will be showing in shows in very public places for the next year. I want folks to see it and realize they are not alone. I want them to realize there are a multitude of ways to get involved in resistance. Parents can partner with other parents, sharing child care duties freeing each other up to participate in the protests and local Indivisible Group actions. Folks can petition Lawmakers. They can donate to the ACLU or other organizations doing good work. They can make art. They can simply speak up and say what is happening is wrong. My second hope is that by having my art shown in major arts organizations and businesses around town I will be putting pressure on those pillars to have the guts to show my art even when they get push back from their patrons, who may see no problem with what is happening. My hope is my art will connect people, not just with the community but also in honoring our ancestors by doing something, learning from what worked in the past and using those tools. Its not about us individually but rather the story we all weave, those here now and those who came before.

Of course tiny living taught me to live a life of balance and keep joy in it too. It taught me the importance of balance. For me a good fiction book is a real treat. I’m adding a book recommendation…. “Grandmother Begins The Story”, a captivating debut by Michelle Porter. She uses her Metis culture’s storytelling traditions in an incredibly imaginative way, to tell the stories past and present of five generations of family, with focus on poetry and music. Ms Porter’s book speaks to the connections we have past, present and future, and how it is never about the individual.

If you know folks you think I should include in my exhibit, please reach out. I need at least a half an hour with them, as well as some good photos to work from. Here is how it works….
“We The People” exhibit! tiny acts of Resistance from Ordinary People.

If you choose to give a donation to help me capture my goal of 100 portraits for my exhibit, a donation of $100 or more will allow me to paint another person who inspires me in their activism. At that amount, your portrait will be yours at the end of my year of shows. (a painting that normally would cost you $600, as I currently get $2.50 a square in for my work.)

If you don’t want your portrait but want to donate, every dollar helps make this happen and is greatly appreciated!

Any extra money at the end of the show will go to help the legal costs of immigrant families, and local work done on behalf of local indivisible groups, and a local mutual aid group- Equitable Giving Circle.

If you know of an ordinary person doing good work to resist, I’m especially looking for a diversity of action to inspire those looking at my show who may feel hopeless or not know how they can participate.

I currently have three shows set up, one in downtown Portland, one in the Central East Side and one back in Troutdale at very public spaces as a way to push back on the business pillars and arts pillars in our community to take a stand for democracy. I also have a few of my ussual coffee shops and tea houses I’d like to show at. If you have ideas of other places I should reach out and book my show locally, let me know.

Feel free to comment how you are resisting to give others ideas. There is no right or wrong way, and no action is too small. And I highly recommend taking selfish time to refill, rejuvinate, tune out the doomsday scrolling, find joy and read a good book inbetween your actions. If you have any fun fiction book recommendations or more serious readng for the cause, feel free to comment on that too.

Love you all for your continued follow and support!

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The Gift of Choice: Goodbyes & Hellos

Trevor Noah was saying you don’t often get to choose when you want to end something or start something new. He explains the restaurant tells you they are closing,and you can’t choose when you die. Do we really learn how to deal with endings and transitions? I often think I have a transition plan for the next stage of my life, but do I? Most times when I follow a new path I’m thinking this is what I’ll do for the rest of my life, and then the universe laughs at me.

So I sit here reflecting on my life change choices. How much was choice? Or was each change just inevitable. Since I really see myself in transition, what choice do I have now going forward? I think when it comes to choice there is not really a right or wrong choice, just a choice. And one can always make a different choice in the next moment. I noticed we all go really hard on ourselves when we have choices to make. And with what is going on in our country and the world we definitely have a lot of choices to make each day.

In my journey, hitting the road saved me from toxic stress that was wearing on my health. I have found joy everywhere I have lived, yet California I found to be the most wearing place I have experienced. I could have still been there. A highly intense job, the fires, the distance from loved ones, all would have shaped my choices there if I had stayed.

Jumping ahead, my choice to leave trailer life on the road and eventually all together by selling the trailer was a choice I made over a couple of years, as information kept revealing itself to me. Trailer life is way more than instagram photos or you tube videos. I entered it having no idea what it was, and zero expectations. I only hoped to simplify life and gain focus on where I was going next, which I accomplished. I thought I would do it longer than I did, but having accomplished what I wanted it was time for change again. The reality that trailers are not made of very durable materials, not really made to live in full time (even though lots of people do) and are made for the true DIY soul, all made it easier for me to let go of the life. DIY was not really my thing. Plus I missed the city. I am a true city/country girl. I have to have both in my life and trailer life that was affordable typically meant being far away from grocery stores and hospitals.

One thing I did know was I loved having a smaller environmental impact on the planet and I loved pulling my focus from material things making me happy, to enjoying quality time, quality moments and having experiences with other humans. I have also have been thrilled to have the priviledge to make and actually sell my art!

Trailer life can also be very physical and some folks stay very fit late into life, but I was already feeling the strains of the physical part of trailer life. Aging and my plans for life as an older soul definitely are on my mind as more and more people I love pass out of this world and into the next.

Lastly I loved having community, which trailer life is all about. I’d give that life high scores on community. Its one place where people with very differing backgrounds are thrown together and you have to figure out how to make it work, how to help each other, how to be there for your neighbor, in spite of differences.

Eventually, as you know, the choice to transition into an apartment was the next logical step. I spent a lot of time looking at places only to have them snatched out from under me because someone was in line in front of me, or have them not meet their online photo images to say it politely, or to find they were way over priced for anything I could afford. Sharing a single home was one way to have a smaller footprint until I could transition in an apartment. My friend who shared her house had the means to share and likes helping with the housing issues in the city, or should I say lack of enough housing.

Moving into an apartment I noticed a mindset that is embedded in our culture that I felt I needed to change in myself. I thought I had started that change when I said yes to living with a friend but in reality, I started it when I sold my California house and jumped in a trailer fulltime. The idea that owning a big house by myself is the goal, or shows that I have made it at last, is kind of foolish, and not very good for our planet. In some ways apartment living seemed like going backwards. Wouldn’t folks want to own their own place? I did and still might. However, when crunching the numbers and figuring out the all of the variables, each way of living costs money and has its pros and cons. Some ways have living have a harsher effect on our home, planet earth.

Thinking of apartment living as a choice, as a way to help the environment, and not buying into the “made it” mentality, was a mindset adjustment. It made me wonder about other parts of the world. Do other parts of the world have whole neighborhoods made up of single family homes where one or two people live in isolation in their home and try to maintain it financially and physically? Or are there more societies that are about communal living and working together, sharing resources, bartering our gifts and living smaller so that everyone has a place and we hopefully take better care of our planet? For now my apartment feels like home. Plus I found even now I’m still learning what I like and don’t like in a physical space, if I were to buy a place. I do love that I can hop on a bus at my front door and go to the front door of just about all of the places I frequent. Shout out to Portland for the best transit system I have seen anywhere! And I still am able to find community here.

Currently I find myself struggling like Frida and Diego. Do I make art for arts sake, or buy into the capitalist journey of an artist? Galleries take half of your money if you are lucky to be connected and to actually get representation in one. The tax system is stacked against an artist, as it is with anyone who is not incredibly rich, and who does not have ways to avoid taxes. And art from the soul and the heart isn’t always what folks want to purchase for their living room walls, yet there are huge costs to making art people will buy and showing your art. I’ll be venturing deeper into the world of collectives and pop ups this summer.

This year I am focused on a series that speaks to where we are with environmental issues in hopes to have a show early next year where all of the profits skip me completely and go directly to some of my favorite environmental organizations. I will definitely invite other artists to join me. Stay tuned if you live in Portland or nearby.

In the meantime I keep looking at real estate options from my agent here and my agent in Minneapolis, leaving both options open for my next landing space. I will need a little more space to have my in home studio, and how I hustle with my art would be very different in the two cities. Both cities are very artist centered. There’s more of a pop up and collective focus here in Portland unless you are connected to the old school curators who will represent you in a gallery. Minneapolis has a lot of grant work, and mural work, as well as live work artist community spaces. Either way, I will find a way to keep creating as it feeds my soul as one way to resist all of the roadblocks that our current Oligarchs are putting up in front of us.

Trevor is right in that when you do get to choose an ending, it is that much sweeter because you get to let those around you know how much your time together meant to you, and share where you are going next. Some of them may stay with you on your ride. Feeling in transition right now both personally and in our country, I am staying open to opertunities where I am a part of choosing endings and new beginnings. I’m staying as honest with myself as I can be as to where we are, how I can make the most of my life each day, and how I can use my voice and art for change. I want you all to know I’ve appreciated you as witnesses to my journey.

I dedicate this post to my dad. I guess there isn’t an option for our parents to be with us forever. Love you dad! This is the three year anniversary of saying goodbye to my dad. I miss him everyday. I think I’ll take a boat ride on the Columbia to celebrate memories of boating with him as a kid. And I’ll continue my journey courageously, not fearing changes, choices and goodbeyes.

Thank you, any of you out there, still following my ramblings. ; )

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Sticks and Bricks: Rebuilding Community is Resistance

With all of the mayhem going on I’ve decided its best to wait on loft ownership. I’ve entered back into sticks and bricks life, establishing community in a rental. With everything going on in the world, or should I say the United States, right now it seems smartest to not spend a dime, keep saving and turn my focus to building community and making art. I did not come to that decision in any kind of logical, rational way. It was as most of my better decisions, a little voice within guiding me step by step.

You see on the day I made all of my big moves I literally woke up chatting with one of my cousins in Alberta, Canada. I was making my plan to finally live in Canada, honoring my Canadian citizenship, that had been gifted to me so many years ago.

Anyhow, a friend had been telling me how her brother, a very established artist, had moved back from New York and gotten into an art studio on the Central East Side of Portland. She thought it would be such a good idea for me. Her brother has shown his work worldwide and actually was represented by someone in town who is one of the who is who of the art world. It is common to feel like a fraud as an artist and I found myself back there, along with feeling poor, so I laughed at her everytime she mentioned it. So instead she tricked me into visiting ADX studios by telling me she wanted me to meet her brother and see his show. Of course I said yes.

Once we arrived she started showing me available studios and had the owner/curator/representation telling me the details of each space. I laughed and said I was a bad bet for commitment since only this morning I was planning my escape to Canada. The landlady’s response was even though the lease was a year, she would allow me to give two months notice and leave with no penalties. I thought that was a little intriguing. But then I came up with another excuse… it’s too expensive. She said I could share it. I was surprised at how excited my artist friends from my open studio were to say yes and jump at the chance. It dawned on me that I had access to a tool of resistance, making art. And that I needed to stay in the fight. So I stayed. We were in! A community of over 90 artists, working together, meeting together supporting eachother. It is a very diverse group from woodworkers , to performing artists, to architects, painters, and more. The space we ended up with is a lovely space in the loft with a glimpse of the outside world natural light via the adjoining studio. I’m excited to dive back into painting as a real commitment again with a dedicated space. I’m plodding along on my current theme, which will be better named down the road, but is all about raising funds to help the environment. If Dumpy deystroys the environment nothing else will matter. We have to take care of this place we call home. The more I learn about environmental issues, the more I want to paint and finish this series as well as change my own day to day practices. I’m not perfect, but I know there is a lot we can do and get it right still.

At the same time, I knew it was time to get my own space to call home, big enough to ditch my storage unit. After intentionally looking long and hard, I wasn’t coming up with much. Everything in Portland is overpriced and nothing was very impressive. It made me miss the freedom of my small trailer space. At least there it was beautiful and there was no trash outside, or people sleeping in my front yard. And if I didn’t like something, I could get up and go.

It was the end of the day and I decided to check out one more apartment building. It was a big coorporate kind of place where you are supposed to schedule appointments for viewings. The last corporte apartment I looked at, I had scheduled a viewing and the landlords never showed up for the showing, so here I wasn’t expecting much. The front office person you could tell was tired. Her demeanor spoke of putting up with a lot of stuff on her job. She explained I needed an appointment. I’m not sure what I said but all of a sudden she said she could show me a couple of places. I can’t explain it but I walked in and it just felt like home. So I figured, I’d figure out the expenses and make it work.

Both Dudley and I love it here and have found so many things about it that we didn’t even realize we’d like. I have ten foot ceilings, and hardwood floors. I can put in ceiling fans and avoid having to use AC, and we are over a New Season’s grocery store. Literally nobody lives below me. It is so quiet. My view looks out at a quiet block of old homes as we are in a neighborhood surrounded by several old Portland neighborhoods with beautiful homes in them. I got a one bedroom because everybody was going for studios and they couldn’t rent one bedrooms so they offered them at a better deal, which I suppose could catch up to me one day and bite me in the behind. But for now we are loving it. The layout is perfect. I had to buy a few things but were able to find quality furniture pieces we love at very inexpensive prices. And the cool thing is there is so much around me, I could literally go carless from here. I step out on the street and their are buses that will take me to the doorstep of most of the places I like to go and more. And someday I’ll be riding that electric bike as this is one of the best walkable, bikeable cities.

Today, I got bold and went to a building social making some new neighbor friends. I’m the old lady in the bunch, but that’s ok. Many times in life I have been the young gal befriended by the older lady, so I guess I can pay that forward. Right now, with all of the chaos and hate, it feels good to get to know people in new circles, and to get closer to people in the circles I’m already in, bonding together, and standing up, even in small ways to an America going in the wrong direction. It feels good to have joined an art community where I will be able to resist through my art. It feels good to have some roots, doing something counter to what my fears make me want to do. It feels good not to run, to stand my ground and fight in my own kind of way. I’ll still have time in my life to enjoy that Canadian citizenship. For now I need to be here fighting to build something better especially for our Canadian friends and neighbors.

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Goodbye Beast. Hello Mr. Frog!

A lot has happened as those who follow me on social media know, but I’m actually still living tiny. Just in a way I did not expect.

Exit plans are all good, but things never really go as planned. There really was a lot of thought, journaling, researching and waiting in leaps in jumps to transition out of Airstream life. I had to think what comes first? Do I sell the Airstream and then find an apartment? Do I find an apartment and then sell the Airstream? Can I sell the Airstream myself? What do I need to fix on the Airstream in order to sell it? What if I sell my truck first? How will I move my Airstream? It was a whirlwind of thoughts, ideas and possibilities. What comes first the chicken or the egg?

And as for exit plans, so much has changed even since I started writing this post I have been battling in my head exit plans on a larger scale. So I thought I better get to catching you all up on the first leap from the Airstream to city life, so that in a near future blog I can catch you up on possible country leaping as well as studio news!

We love our little Mr. Frog who jumps us all around Portland getting to know the city landscape. Our next goal is an electric bike, and public transport to cut back on our use of fossil fuels.
A view of Portland from Nob Hill. Maybe a future condo, if not back in the Mini Apple.

What I ended up doing was selling “Beast”, my truck, first. A diesel truck actually holds its value quite well. At least my Dodge Ram 2500 4×4 did. (I like saying that. =] )I lost a little money on the fact that I chipped up the paint job during that last winter ice storm banging on my truck to get the ice off so I could get to my generators when the power went out. Oh well, such is life. I was still able to get a good price and walk away with enough cash to turn around and get Mr. Frog, my new Honda HRV. When I saw that car on the lot my thought was wow, that’s a jazzy car! Funny because it actually looks like every car out there, but I do love it. Its small, the gas mileage is worlds better than a diesel truck and I’m able to whip around town learning the city much quicker than I could before. When it came time to tow my trailer out of the park, my car salesmen brought his truck, also a Dodge Ram 2500, over and helped me tow it. However, I do know that my ultimate downsize tiny move will come the next round when I go completely without a car. Living in Portland, the city is completely walkable and I will feel better not contributing to the demise of our planet with a car. Oh one last thing about my new car… the seats fold completely flat, my matress its in the back and I can easily car camp in it, which is lovely! I took my first car camp trip to Half Moon Bay in San Fransisco and had a good time!

As for selling my trailer, that was a learning process. In the end I found it way to difficult to sell myself, and I’m good at selling stuff. The marketing was the hardest part. I was dropping $100 here and $100 there to advertise in all of the right places. The responses I was getting were only coming from facebook marketplace of all places. It was dragging on and I didn’t want to go through another winter making it less valuable. Airstream was not great on information but eventually I figured out that I had a couple of options with them, I could either outright sell it back to Airstream, where I would get a little less, or I could consign it thorugh Airstream. Of course they found thousand of dollars of work that needed to be done, which was bulloney. I knew the dollar amount for the work that had to be done, but there is no way to argue with them. And if I chose to consign it it woldn’t get sold until next spring. So I took the route that got me less money back but actually probably saved me money as I was able to wipe out all of my debt immediately, sell all of my extra gear instead of gift it for another chunk of money, wipe out interest payments since all debt was paid off, and simply be done with a bunch in savings. Outright selling her back to Airstream was the best deal.

I hadn’t been a roomate in over 30 years so moving in with a colleague from my theater side gig was a leap of faith too. Hopefully she enjoys the company as much as I do. I live in the upstairs of my friend’s house which technically is the attic. There are two finished rooms up there and a doorway that leads to the rest of the attic. The rent is kindly priced unlike anything else in Portland, allowing me to save up for that condo or loft where my studio is in my living space. And because there are two rooms I have had a studio in the second room which works out. And I’m still living tiny. I haven’t actually measured but I’d guess the space to still be around 200 feet. Although I do share a shelf in the fridge in the kitchen and the bathroom downstairs. I have a huge redwood right outside of my window and incredible backyard garden that takes me back to the rivers and creeks I have been living on. Once in awhile Dudley and I drive back to our old stomping grounds and “smell the Redwoods”.

I’ve picked up a mentee which keeps me learning. And I’m working on a series trying not to show any of it until the unveiling of the entire show. I’m working in the abstract completely on a theme that is centered around the current climate crisis which has allowed me to learn a lot about living with an even smaller footprint. I’ll share some of the things I’m learning in a future post.

As usual, thanks for the follow. I am no longer on facebook, so you’ll have to catch me here, or see when I post on bluesky (@ElisaMG.bluesky.social) or instagram (@TinyAdventuresOfElisaMG) while I’m still there.